Ep. 1: Chassidus vs. Psychology, Individuality & Self-Importance, Addiction, Lust & Desire

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Topics:

The role of psychology today. 9:14
Can Chassidus replace psychology? 10:51
Is Chassidus therapeutic or behavioral? 19:41
Preventative vs. remedial medicine. 25:16
Do I matter? 34:30
Healthy vs Unhealthy Kabbolos Ohl? 43:00
Individuality in Judaism. 44:43
Addiction: Channeling powerful energy 49:27
The anatomy of lust, desire and passion 52:49
Power of desire vs. object of desire. 54:54

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